Our Story.

Modern. Intentional. Unforgettable.

Humble Beginnings.

We’re Nick and LivScandinavian by heart, American by adventure, and romantics by nature.

Our story began across the Atlantic, on a crisp September morning in Copenhagen, where a chance encounter turned into a quiet kind of forever. Years later, after moving to the U.S. and planning our own wedding, we found ourselves disheartened by an industry that seemed more focused on price tags than presence, more interested in upsells than understanding.

Vendors spoke over us. Packages were rigid. Our vision, simple, emotive, personal… kept getting lost in the noise.

So we created Vær Weddings.

The Philosophy Behind Vær

In Old Norse, the word “Vær” carries several meanings: to be, to care, to weather. For us, it reflects presence, resilience, and intentional design—everything a wedding should embody.

We believe your wedding isn’t a production. It’s a lived story, written slowly, honestly, and without spectacle for spectacle’s sake. Every couple we work with is treated as if we’re planning for ourselves all over again, with curiosity, care, and deep respect for your vision.

Why us?

We don’t believe in cookie-cutter timelines. Every wedding is entirely custom—designed around you, not a Pinterest trend.

  • We’re not here to upsell.
  • We guide with intention, not ego or fluff. Simplicity can be luxury.
  • We speak your language – visually and emotionally.

With backgrounds in design, hospitality, and storytelling, we understand how to build moments that feel cohesive, meaningful, and visually timeless.

Let’s Create Your Moment.

Whether you’re planning from scratch or just need someone to finally listen, we’re here to help you design a day that feels like home.